The world we humans have created and live in is unbelievably complicated, and this is reflected in the way we’re living.
Consider how most people live: Day in and day out they are fighting with one another, are endlessly busy doing things they deep down hate doing, their attention is constantly being distracted by superfluous things, and their minds are filled with an endless stream of conflicting thoughts — in a few words, their hearts and souls are being sucked into the vortex we call “modern living”.
Inhabiting such a complicated world, it’s impossible not to be influenced by it. But through our thoughts, actions, and attitude we can choose to simplify our lives and be more detached from its chaotic ways, as well as inspire those around us to do the same. If you’d like to learn to live more simply so that you can improve your well-being, but you don’t know how the following tips might prove helpful.
Declutter your work and living space
Reducing the amount of unnecessary stuff you’ve collected over the years can do wonders to help reduce your stress levels and keep your life simple. By living in an uncluttered environment, you’ll be able to focus on what’s truly important to you and won’t be led away by constant distractions. Besides, you won’t have to maintain and worry about things that you don’t need and don’t contribute in any way to your happiness.
Limit your media time
Most people spend an enormous part of their lives watching TV or mindlessly surfing the internet. They then complain that life is short and wonder why they can’t find joy in it. Although the media can be suitable if used carefully and with the measure, it can also turn into a harsh tyrant if we become addicted to it and let it enslave us in a virtual world that prevents us from living up to our fullest potential.
Get rid of unnecessary costs
Entrapped in the web of consumerism, a lot of us choose to waste our hard-earned money buying things that we don’t need and which only complicate our lives. From now on, simplify your life by not throwing your money around and instead spend it on things that matter. Helpful tips: ditch your credit cards and say no to taking loans to avoid getting into debt.
Focus on what you love
When you do what you enjoy doing, life becomes simple. On the contrary, when you dislike what you do, life becomes a sheer drudgery. Unfortunately, from a very young age most of us have been conditioned to focus our attention on things that we hate doing, and so it’s no wonder that we are experiencing so much suffering. From today, make it a conscious choice to expend your energy on what you love rather than what you don’t, and your life will be completely transformed.
Take good care of your body
Life becomes extremely complicated when we don’t love and look after our bodies. Suffering from disease is exceptionally uncomfortable and turns everyday life into torture, so, as long as we live, we better learn how to keep ourselves healthy. Here’s how to do so: eat a variety of fresh, organic, plant-based foods, be physically active throughout the day, and rest well when you feel tired.
Reconnect with nature
Whenever possible, take a walk in nature, away from the hustle and bustle of the concrete jungle you most probably are living in. Relax your soul listening to the sounds of birds, explore the beauty of trees, animals and the sea, take some deep breaths of fresh air, and find inner peace by immersing yourself in the harmony of the natural world.
Develop a non-judgmental attitude
We use much of our time and energy judging others, and our judgmental attitude is tremendously complicating our lives: it separates us from one another, which in turn creates interpersonal conflict and emotional pain. By learning to place ourselves in the shoes of others and empathize with them, we can form better relationships with each other that will make us feel more at peace with the world around us.
Offer your help to others
Our well-being depends largely on the well-being of others. Therefore, by helping others to be healthy and happy, we are helping ourselves, and, in a sense, the entire world. Whenever you can, offer a helping hand to those in need to alleviate their pain. Of course, beware not to help others at the expense of yourself (except, perhaps, on rare occasions) — helping is one thing, sacrificing is another.
Another obvious yet often neglected way to simplify your life is just to be kinder to your fellow human beings. Having been brought up in a competitive society, most of us are constantly fighting against one another, which immensely complicates our everyday life, by further alienating us and creating even more suffering. By behaving more kindly, you will spread the seeds of kindness, and soon you will come to see those around you behaving more kindly towards you as well.
Life is filled with obstacles that we have to overcome. However, constantly complaining about the obstacles we encounter does nothing to help us deal with them. On the contrary, it distracts us from finding out how to go beyond them, and so we never actually take concrete action to achieve that. Instead of wasting your time and energy complaining about the problems you are facing, seek to discover the causes of your problems and then do your best to remove them from your life.
The mind is good as a servant but bad as a master. When our minds are filled with myriads of thoughts, life gets immensely complicated, resulting in tremendous stress and suffering. A great way to achieve a more peaceful state of mind and bring more levity into your life is the practice of mindful awareness. Starting today, spend at least thirty minutes every day practicing a meditation technique that you prefer. Doing so will do wonders to help relieve yourself of the many, chaotic thoughts that at times might be driving your mind crazy.
Unless we appreciate the wonder-full gift of life that we have been offered freely by existence, we will never be able to find contentment. Most of us are in a continuous struggle to acquire or achieve more in the future, forgetting to enjoy what we’ve been offered in this very moment, so it’s no wonder that life seems like a constant struggle. Although it’s great to set new goals and make plans for tomorrow, we need to realize that it’s only the present that we have, and that we can enjoy ourselves only by being grateful for the little things that we’re fortunate to experience in the here and now.
Build genuine friendships
As social beings that we all are, we deeply need to feel connected with others. In the sick society that we live in, however, we are disconnected and alienated from our fellow human beings. People are afraid of intimacy and heart-to-heart relationships lest they get hurt, so they choose to become isolated from those around them. This, however, only results in feelings of loneliness, insecurity, and discontentment. If you want to let go of all these burdens that keep you from living in quiet joy with the world, learn to open up your heart and befriend others. By forming genuine friendships, you’ll be able to give and receive loving affection, which is going to nourish your soul and enrich your life in multiple ways.
Listen to your inner voice
Since we were born, most of us were taught not to accept ourselves as we are, and to strive to become different to feel accepted by society continuously. Slowly slowly, thinking that there’s something very wrong with ourselves, we stopped trusting our inner voice and following what our heart is dictating us. Instead, we’ve been conditioned to follow what authority tells us is good and right, which is a sure-fire way to stress and misery. The truth is that no one can know what is better for you except yourself. So if you’ve been conforming and following orders, it’s time to stop — now. Instead, start using your critical thinking and paying attention to your emotional world, both of which will guide you towards a much simpler and better life.
Life can be lived simply, and yet we insist on complicating it. Now that you know, what keeps you from keeping it simple?
This article (How to Live Simply in a Complicated World) was published by The Unbounded Spirit and is republished here with permission under a Creative Commons license with attribution to theunboundedspirit.com
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